Monday, January 30, 2012

Zenger Nilsen Family Newsletter

“…Ye Should Go to the Ohio”
- Doctrine & Covenants 38:32
Chapter One

In the beginning… this seems to best describe our early journey: new home, new names, new missionaries, new schools, 29 hour days, interviews, GPS Cincinnati, Dayton, Columbus, speeches, transfers, airports, meetings, kids, humidity, Josh to Ecuador, laughter, miracles, trials, cooking, 6 a.m. Seminary, lacrosse, zone conferences, dinners, baptisms, blessings, midnight transfers, early morning calls, leadership training, Mission Medical consultations, hospitals, General Authorities, basketball, teaching, counseling, Temple, firesides, Stake Conferences, Stake dances, Christmas devotionals, visitors, then repeat. We have 180 missionaries including 20 Sisters, 20 Spanish speaking Elders, 9 Sr. Couples, 9 Zones, areas in 3 states including Zanesville where that crazy guy released all his wild and exotic animals. Additionally, we have Amish territory and, of course, that other devoted sect, The Ohio State Buckeyes.

While it sounds like a whirlwind, and it is, it is also like a slow moving riverboat on the Ohio and Erie Canal. When we are still enough to watch, we see the Lord’s hand steering the mission and the miracles ripple. We have watched our kids being shaped by the gentle exposure to Sisters and Elders who live their convictions, share their hearts and make each day count. We see the struggle that investigators have in charting a new course versus taking the road most traveled. We hear their first spoken prayers and their exclamations of understanding that suddenly connect today with eternities past, present and future and we hear the voice of the Spirit, in the very hour, yea, the very moment we need Him, put words into our mouths and minds. Our mission is truly a marvelous work and a wonder.

As many of you know, given our overseas experience, we thought we might go to a foreign location and it turns out that we have. We have had the privilege of helping teach and baptize an Amish family. It is hard to put into words the beauty of what it means to be “plain and simple.” We have been in their home on many occasions to spend the entire evening, lit by gas lamps, without any interruption by cell phones. No one calls, no one gets up to change the stereo or show us something on YouTube. We see their little children play together for hours without any TV or videos, no internet or Xbox. They live in every moment. They say what they mean, they have no false pride and they are genuine every day. On the other hand, they have never heard of Harry Potter or Mozart, they have never been to the zoo or felt the wind in their hair while riding a bike down the lane. They will never take dance lessons or fly in a plane but they will now have the restored gospel of Jesus Christ. We have spent many hours discussing how to best blend the plain and simple of the gospel with the plain and simple of their lives. What we would give for a photo of four-year old Martha, in homemade bonnet and buttoned pinafore, rocking her baby brother in her tiny handmade chair. Sometimes it feels as though we could peek out their window and see the Joseph and Emma Smith family living in a farmhouse next door.

And then there are the missionaries. Love. Love. Love. They come in all shapes and sizes, all strengths and weaknesses. They are scholars, musicians, engineers, nurses, professional rugby players and dirt bikers, national champion steer throwers, beauticians, farmers and more. Some of them have never been off of a horse this long or been this far from home. Some of them have been to Iraq and some of them have been homeless. The majesty of our calling is to know them and love them and see them in action. It only takes new missionaries a few weeks in the field to realize that they are never going to convert anyone without the Spirit and so through study, sweat and tears they strip away their façades and allow God to mold them into new witnesses, at all times, in all things and in all places. We see the transformation in them and in ourselves.

If hard work is the basement of a mission, fun is the family room. We have had more than our share of laughs such as the time the Assistants buried our two pewter sculptures of Elders in a bowl of green Jello, ala Dwight and Jim from “The Office.” Or the time that we went to King’s Island on Proctor and Gamble day and rode every ride without lines until even Jack couldn’t walk straight. We’ve had Annette and Shawn Bradley visit and inspire the whole mission and our kid’s schools with their testimonies and height difference. We’ve been to most of Jen’s basketball games to see her dominate on the court. We’ve been to the Sweet Corn Festival in Millersport where all those countryside stereotypes of Americans still flourish and the corn is plentiful, dripping with butter. The Delaware County Fair is on a different type of mission trying to convert everyone into eating deep-fried everything, from pickles to Twinkies. They do have one thing right; the annual horse parade which includes half the town and about 100 miniature horses and ponies.

Then there is the joy. One of our favorite times is when we have transfers. New missionaries arrive on a Wednesday afternoon; they are in shock yet bouncing off the walls. We pick them up, bring them home, instruct them, feed them giant burgers that Wills is now famous for and then we hear their tender testimonies of Jesus Christ. The next day we swap them for the outgoing missionaries. After taking them to the Temple, we have another dinner at our home and review their soaring highs and crashing lows, their funniest stories and their “Dear John” heartaches. Best of all, we hear their testimonies of the Savior which are often spoken in humble whispers and with tears of gratitude. Their years of service and sacrifice, having been laid upon the altar, now reflect the pure love of Christ.

We are grateful to be in The Great Ohio. We are grateful to still have 29 months to serve and we are grateful for your support. The adventure continues…

Sister Kath and President Bob, Jen, Wills & Jack
Alli, Sr. at Scripps College, Claremont California
Elder Nilsen, Ecuador: joshua.nilsen@myldsmail.net August 2011 to 2013

Thursday, January 12, 2012

Christmas Devotional Photos 2011



We were blessed to have two wonderful Christmas Devotionals with guest speakers Annette and Shawn Bradley. Additionally, we feasted on Cafe Rio, had a talent show, a "Preach My Gospel Challenge of the Champions" and lots of visiting. We are blessed most of all to have the Savior leading our mission and church and to know that He lives and loves us.

Wednesday, January 4, 2012

The Harvester, 2 January 2012

Message from President and Sister Nilsen:

Invictus

Out of the night that covers me,
Black as the Pit from pole to pole,
I thank whatever gods may be
For my unconquerable soul.

In the fell clutch of circumstance
I have not winced nor cried aloud.
Under the bludgeonings of chance
My head is bloody, but unbowed.

Beyond this place of wrath and tears
Looms but the Horror of the shade,
And yet the menace of the years
Finds, and shall find, me unafraid.

It matters not how strait the gate,
How charged with punishments the scroll.
I am the master of my fate:
I am the captain of my soul.


This is the famous poem “Invictus” written in 1875 by the British poet, William Ernest Henley. The title is Latin and means “unconquerable.” When Henley was 12 he contracted tuberculosis of the bone. A few years later, the disease progressed to his foot and physicians announced that the only way to save his life was to amputate directly below the knee. The surgery took place when he was 17 and he nearly lost the other foot to amputation, too. It was then that he wrote his stirring poem.

“Invictus” has been quoted in movies, songs, TV shows etc., and was a very strong message to the South African leader, Nelson Mandela. Mandela was so inspired by this poem that he wrote it on a piece of scratch paper and kept it in his prison cell while he was incarcerated for 27 years. The movie Invictus, based on Mandela’s life, even admitted that he probably would not have made it through the long years in prison if it weren't for the words of this poet. Mandela was eventually released and elected as South Africa's first post-Apartheid president.

Henley’s life is primarily remembered for this one poem. How can words have so much power? How can the words of a suffering 17-year-old boy inspire a revolutionary hero nearly one hundred years later and even us now?

Who doesn't want to be able to say, "I am the master of my fate: I am the captain of my soul." We can read it and think in terms of huge decisions or on each tiny, daily decision. Ultimately, it is condensed to this: “Do I take upon me the name of Christ and always remember Him and keep His commandments? If so, I am the master of my fate and I allow Him to be the captain of my soul. He is with me and I never again have to navigate alone.”

Similarly, the words of 14-year-old Joseph Smith, testing the verses of the Bible, set in motion the revolutionary knowledge that the gospel of Jesus Christ would soon be restored upon the earth. Imagine the force of these inspiring, eternal words, “If any of you lack wisdom, let him ask of God… and it shall be given him.” (James 1:5) Or these words, “This is My Beloved Son. Hear Him!” (Joseph Smith History 1:17) Or these words, “Having been commissioned of Jesus Christ, I baptize you in the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Ghost. Amen.” (Doctrine and Covenants 20:73) As missionaries, these scriptures are so familiar to us but imagine what power they have to those who seek relief from spiritual amputation – these words are profound and miraculous.

As testified of by the Holy Ghost, the scriptures and especially the Book of Mormon inspire and guide all to the Savior and His gift of the Atonement. May we continue to study, read with investigators and flood the earth with the Lord’s gospel that all may be unconquerable, invincible, invictus.

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James J. Chrisman, Counselor, Mission Presidency

In a revelation given through Joseph Smith, the Prophet, Jesus Christ after twice repeating the admonition to “let every man es-teem his brother as himself” commanded, “be one; and if ye are not one ye are not mine.” (DC 38:24-25) As you conduct your companionship inventory you are to “discuss the strength of your relationship with your companion. Discuss any challenges that may be keeping your companionship from working in unity or from being obedient. Resolve conflicts.” (Preach My Gospel, p. 150)
As you pray to be filled with charity (Moroni 7:48) and your love for people increases “you will avoid judging others, criticizing them, or saying negative things about them. You will try to understand them and their points of view. You will be patient with them and try to try to help them when they are struggling or discouraged.” (PMG, p. 118). A person with Christlike attributes “tries to understand others’ feelings and see their point of view” and “forgives others who have offended or wronged” them and “looks for opportunities to serve others” , “say[s] positive things about others” and is “kind and patient with others, even when they are hard to get along with.” (PMG, p. 126) It was said of President Heber J. Grant that he never criticized other men’s weaknesses but made war on his own.
As a companion, you young elders and sisters are in a season of experiencing likely the most intense and constant relationship with another person thus far in your life. While this relationship does not arise from a saving ordinance like being sealed to a spouse or as a family, it is, in part, helping prepare you to move on to such ordinances and to keep the covenants associated with them. I once read in a First Presidency letter that our relationships in eternity will not be limited to those to whom we have been sealed. Perhaps you are presently forging such a relationship with your companion.
What is the strength of your relationship with your companion? May it be characterized as being one, of being unified and blessed with that third essential companion – the Holy Ghost?
As you look at the image on your name tag, you “note that the two most prominent parts are your name and the Savior’s name.” (PMG, p. 123) Is your relationship with Him reflected in your relationship with your companion? Do members and investigators associate your companion’s name and your name with the Savior’s name in a positive way? Are the interactions of your relationship defined more by who is right than what is right?
As you savor the season of good will just celebrated and embark upon a new calendar year, may the Holy Spirit help you see things as they really are and really will be in your companionship relationship; may it be strengthened in His way so you two may be one and be His.
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“WHO YA GONNA CALL?”
Elders and Sisters, do you know who to call when you have a health question (physical, mental, or emotional)?
Here’s the drill:
1. Physical health issues—call Brother Young first:
2. If you can’t reach Brother Young, call Sister
Nilsen 3. If you can’t reach either Brother Young or
Sister Nilsen, call Dr. Brower (Area Medical)
1. Mental, emotional or psychological issues — call Sister Nilsen first. 2. If you can’t reach Sister Nilsen, call Dr. Brower (Area Medical Advisor):
IMPORTANT: please ask your parents if you are cov-ered by private dental and/or medical insurance. If so, please ask them either to send you an insurance card with all pertinent information or to e-mail you with that data. You must have this information with you at every medical or dental appointment. Also please remember that all medical and dental appointments (unless you are going to an emergency room in critical condition) must be pre-approved through Missionary Medical by Sister Nilsen, Brother Young or Dr. Brower .
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Dr. Brower’s Seasonal Advice
“What can I take for my cold?”
There are literally hundreds of OTC (over the counter) medications. If you read labels closely, you will find most have the same basic ingredients. The marketing folks simply change colors, change la-bels, change combinations of ingredients, or make the product fizz to create the latest and greatest.
The following suggestions have worked for me but there are “many ways to skin the cat.” As the new generation says…YMMV! Always look for the generic/store brand version and save your dollars for chocolate. (If the display is in the aisle or “end cap,” it’s brand name and too expensive.)
If the cold is just starting: Zinc lozenges (Cold-Eeze) may prevent it from getting worse. After the first few days, it’s of no value.
For cough: Try Robitussin DM or Delsym (common generic is Tussin DM). Use 2-4 tsp 3-4 times a day as needed, especially at night. Daytime coughs often do better with plain old cough drops.
For runny nose/sinus drainage: Try Dimetapp or Triaminic generics. I often use the liquid version instead of the fixed dose pill so I can take less or more as needed. These can make you sleepy.
For sore throat: Forget Chloroseptic, Sucrets, Cepacol, etc. It’s not well known, but liquid Ben-dadryl (generic is diphenhydramine) is a great local anesthetic. Gargle 4-5 tsp for 2-3 minutes and spit it out. It will often numb throats for hours. It’s also useful for canker sores.
For nasal/sinus congestion: Sudafed is marginal for most and dangerous for some, especially those with high blood pressure. I prefer generic Afrin 12 hour nasal spray (Krogers has $10 brand name or $2.50 generic). Use 5-6 puffs per nostril a.m. and p.m. for no more than 3-4 days. You can become dependent on it. You can also use as much saline nasal spray as you want. It is safe and cheap.
For an “expectorant”: Mucinex has been shown to be minimally more effective than water (which remains the best expectorant) but it is safe in proper dose and generics are cheap. You can spend $20+ for brand name product or $2 for plain generic Robitussin (not CF, PE). They are the same thing (Robitussin is just the liquid form).

Dr. Brower’s Seasonal Advice
“When do I need an antibiotic?”
Antibiotics are often life saving medications, but their overuse puts all of us at risk for new and dangerous infections. Methicillin-resistant staph aureus (MRSA) is one current example. Plain penicillin was once adequate treatment but now MRSA eats penicillin for lunch. Each kind of anti-biotic kills a different group of germs. When you take an antibiotic , the sensitive germs are killed, but there may a few left over who are resistant. These can now create new generations of problem organisms.
When do we need antibiotics? Bacterial in-fections such as ear infection, sinus infection, strep throat, urinary tract infection, skin infections will usually respond to antibiotic therapy. Viral infections such as colds, flu, most coughs (bronchitis), most sore throats, stomach flu won’t improve with antibiotic therapy. Knowing exactly when to use an antibiotic can be a difficult deci-sion because viral infections can lower our resis-tance and lead to bacterial complications. Bottom line is: Most of the coughs, runny noses, sore throats, fevers, aches that come along are VIRAL and don’t benefit from antibiotics. The ones that persist may benefit from treatment.
What can I do to help? Before you call me, try saline nasal spray for a stuffy nose or a gargle of warm water, honey, and lemon to soothe a sore throat. Most viral illnesses will fade away over 3-4 days.
Good hygiene (cleanliness) is very helpful (think clean apartments). Wash hands frequently and use hand sanitizers. Keep food preparation areas clean. Adequate rest, diet, and fluids all boost your resistance. If your problem persists past the 4th day or is getting worse, call me.
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Converts Taught By
Allison, Jessica Elders Holgreen, Sewell, Kirk,Durnall
Adkins, Joanna Jean Elders J. Larsen and Beaudoin
Bell, Linda Elders Riggs and Robinson
Blausey, Heather M. Elders Holgreen, Sewell, Durnall
Blausey, Scott James Elders Holgreen, Sewell, Durnall
Brofft, Miranda Sue Elders Holgreen, Sewell, Durnall
Bumgardner, Linda Elders J. Larsen and Beaudoin
Chrisman Family (5) Elders J. Smith and Hawkins
Daniels, Kristin E. Elders Harris, Richardson, Lund
Espinoza, N. Joshua Elders Driggs and Daw
Flemming, Angela Mae Elders J. Smith and Hawkins
Foister, Brooke E. Elders Cannon, Ingram, Smuin,A. Pearson
Grant, Stephen Elders Fereday, Nielsen,Parry, J.Larsen, Cummings,Tuakalau
Huamani, Carmen C. Elders Hales and Hoole
Igwe, Chuckwdi Elders Redford, Beck, Chisholm,Rose
Jewell, Nicholas Butler Sisters Cash and Weedon
Jividen, Tiffnay R. Elders Unzaga, Steglich, Phinney, Mortensen
Lopez, Jonni Alvaro Elders Hales and Hoole
Manis, Cheryl Lynn Elders Anderson, Allen, Holt,Hopkins
Manis, Richard Franklin Elders Anderson, Allen, Holt,Hopkins
Mateo, Diego Alexis Elders Fisco, Luna, Gonzales,Ipson
Mateo, Jatziri Isamar Elders Fisco, Luna, Gonzales,Ipson
Mercer, Larry Lee Jr. Elders Klein, Cummings, Muir
Miller, Tony A.M. Elders Hill and Satchwell
Shremshock, Joshua P. Elders Turner, Rawlings
Thomin, Terry Lee Elders Cannon, Ingram, Smuin,A. Pearson,
Ballard, Fisco
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REMEMBER
the
OHIO COLUMBUS MISSION
STANDARDS OF EXCELLENCE
Areas of Focus
1. We are 100% obedient all the time.
2. We are ALWAYS FINDING.
3. We SERVE the members and EARN their
referrals.
4. We INVITE all new investigators during the
first lesson to be baptized, read the Book of
Mormon, and attend church. (We strongly
encourage informal chapel tours.)
5. We ACHIEVE our goals through faith, prayer,
fasting and exceptionally hard and smart
work.
Weekly Companionship Goals
1. We have 80% + “member present” for lessons
after the first discussion.
2. We find 2 or more new investigators each
week. We always have 15-20 part-member or
less-active families/individuals we are serving.
3. We teach 20 lessons a week.
4. We complete one short service project per
week, preferably serving our Bishops and
Ward Mission Leaders. Build trust and earn
their referrals.
5. We achieve all of our morning schedules —
100% per week — the foundation of our day.
Monthly Companionship Goal
Baptize one person or family every month!
Personal Revelation and Testimony
Sister Barbara B. Thompson, Relief Society General Presidency
Elder David A. Bednar has taught us: “As you appropriately
seek for and apply unto the spirit of revelation, I promise
you will ‘walk in the light of the Lord’ (Isaiah 2:5; 2
Nephi 12:5). Sometimes the spirit of revelation will operate
immediately and intensely, other times subtly and gradually,
and often so delicately you may not even consciously recognize
it. But regardless of the pattern whereby this blessing is
received, the light it provides will illuminate and enlarge your
soul, enlighten your understanding (see Alma 5:7; 32:28), and
direct and protect you . . .”16
The Lord desires to . . . pour down his Spirit upon us . . .
for personal revelation we need to desire to receive it, we
must not harden our hearts, we need to ask in faith, truly believe
that we will receive an answer, and then diligently keep
the commandments of God. Then as we seek answers to our
questions, He will bless us with His Spirit. Of this I testify in
the name of Jesus Christ, amen.
(October General Conference, 2011)
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Baptized & Confirmed— by Zone (as of 12/29/11)
Zone Oct Nov Dec
Cincinnati 2 4 6
Cincinnati -East 2 3 2
Cincinnati North 7 8 5
Columbus 1 1 2
Columbus East 6 5 3
Columbus North 2 2 1
Columbus South 4 0 6
Dayton 4 1 3
Dayton East 5 0 2
Totals 32 24 30
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Accidents — What to do When the Unexpected Happens
by Elder Harrison, Vehicle Coordinator

I believe all of us have heard someone say, “That will never happen to me.” It is a good thing to have hope. It is a positive thing to take that hope a step further and do those things that help us avoid problems. That is a wise use of the agency we have, for it provides an unconscious barrier that protects us. However, our intelligent use of agency does not overcome or replace the agency of others. It is quite probable that at some point in my life and yours, we will suffer because of the agency and actions of others.
While we serve here in the mission field, the Church has established guidelines that should be followed when 1) personal injury, 2) a bicycle accident, or 3) a vehicle accident occurs. The following is a brief out-line of those guidelines.
Personal Accidents — This signifies injuries not involving a bicycle or vehicle.
Notify Sister Nilsen as soon as possible. Sister Nilsen or another authorized individual will help you determine what to do.
Bicycle Accidents — The primary types of bike accidents are being struck by a car or losing control of the bike and crashing. Of course, the severity of personal injury is an issue here. The basic guidelines are:
Notify either Sister Nilsen or the Vehicle Coordinator as soon as possible.
If a vehicle is involved, obtain the drivers identification and vehicle information (drivers license number and address, car license number, make and year).
If police are on site, note the officer’s name and the city he works for. The officer may give you an “exchange of information form”. This form should be mailed to the mission office.
Sister Nilsen, the Vehicle Coordinator or another authorized individual will give you directions about seeking medical care.
Complete and mail the “Bicycle Accident Report” form to the mission office within 24 hours.
Vehicle Accidents — This includes one-vehicle and multiple-vehicle accidents.
Notify the Vehicle Coordinator as soon as possible.
If another vehicle is involved, follow the suggestions on the pink or blue card titled “What to Do if You Have an Accident” in the glove compartment of your car with the accident forms.
Obtain the drivers identification and note the vehicle information (drivers license number and ad-dress, car license number, make and year). You may use the “Traffic Collision Information Ex-change” form found in the glove compartment of the car.
If police are on site, note the officer’s name and the city he works for. The officer may give you an “exchange of information form”. The form should be mailed to the mission office with the com-pleted “Traffic Accident or Vehicle Damage Report” within 24 hours of the accident.
Sister Nilsen, the Vehicle Coordinator or another authorized individual will give you directions about seeking medical care.
IMPORTANT — DO NOT ACCEPT MONEY FROM THE DRIVER. DO NOT ADMIT BLAME FOR THE ACCIDENT. DO NOT ACCEPT ANY SETTLEMENT FOR THE ACCIDENT.
REMEMBER — Any and all claim settlements must be made by the
Church Risk Management Division.
IMPORTANT — DO NOT ACCEPT MONEY FROM THE DRIVER. DO NOT ADMIT BLAME FOR THE ACCIDENT. DO NOT ACCEPT ANY SETTLEMENT FOR THE ACCIDENT.
Refer all calls from the other person’s insurance company to the Vehicle Coordinator. REMEMBER — Any and all claim settlements must be made by the Church Risk Management Division.
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New Arrivals

Elder Shane Birch, Elder Caleb Bowden, Elder Ryan Bracken, Elder Bush Chhay,
Elder Ben Culler, Sister Mele Finefeuiaki,Elder Robert Forsberg, Elder Calvin Irwin, Elder Oren Jacobson, Elder Dylan Lloyd Elder Lance Mudrow, Elder Zachery Nielsen,
Elder Myron Peters, Elder Joseph Peterson, Elder Deven Smuin
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Departing Testimonies

My dear fellow warriors of truth:
How amazing it was to serve around you in this GREAT COLUMBUS OHIO MISSION! I testify of the fulness of this gospel. I know that God is our loving Heavenly Father. He has shown His love to me in countless ways. I know that Jesus Christ is our Savior and Redeemer,. The power of the Atonement has changed my life. I know the Book of Mor-mon is the word of God. It testifies of the truthfulness of the gospel and I know it is our sword of truth. I know that Jo-seph Smith translated this book through the power of God and he became the prophet who led us into this last dispen-sation—who gave his life for the work. I know that Thomas S. Monson is called of God and is our prophet on the earth today.
My fellow warriors, continue working hard. Help the people of Ohio realize that through the power of the Atone-ment of Jesus Christ, we can ALL return to our Father in Heaven, no matter the trials we face. Elders and Sisters, I love you all so much. God be with you till we meet again. In the name of Jesus Christ, Amen.
Elder Patrick Newell Pierce

Elders and Sisters,
Jesus is the Christ, the Only Begotten Son of God and the Savior and Redeemer of the world. He stands at the head of His restored church and personally directs the work we are doing.
We are His hands. It is a privilege to serve Him who first served us and who makes it possible to return to the Father. As we serve, we become “who He wants us to be”.
“All that He requires of [us] is to keep His command-ments.” (Mosiah 2:22) And He has commanded, “Feed my sheep.”
In this great work He has not left us alone. “I the Lord am with you, and will stand by you; and ye shall bear record of me, even Jesus Christ, that I am the Son of the Living God, that I was, that I am, and that I am to come.” (Doctrine and Covenants 68:6).
I know these things to be true; the Book of Mormon is evidence of it, the Holy Ghost witnesses of it, modern prophets testify of it, and we invite others to taste of it.
In the name of Jesus Christ, Amen.
Elder Steven Tanner Satchwell